Love Language

People love and perceive love in very different ways. The first person I spoke to about the way I love is my amazing boyfriend Jonathan. He is seriously one of the best things that ever happened to me. I talked to him about how I like to show my love with physical affection and he agreed that is the one of the primary displays of caring I give. I show affection using massage, back scratches, hugs, kisses, hand holding, and a million other ways. I have dated people who weren't into that, but I'm so glad that he is. We also talked about how I show my love verbally. He said I'm very encouraging, supportive, and vocal. When I feel something, I say it. Whether it is about the awesome partnership we have, my hopes for the future, or just the warm fuzzy feeling of love. I don't let the moment pass without speaking my emotions. Lastly we discussed how he believes I reward people with gifts. I had never really considered that but he is right. I buy him small gifts and send him things I think he would like. I pay for dinner when I want him to know he is appreciated and that we are a team. Our love works well together because I get the same things I give. We are deeply connected by our ability to give and receive love.

The other person I spoke to was my dad. I show love to my dad and the rest of my family by being there. There was a time when I didn't spend much time with my family and didn't appreciate them. Now, I never miss a chance to spend time with them. My family is my priority and I have become the person that is always planning the next holiday or get together. I also show my love verbally. I never hang up the phone without saying "Love you, bye". My dad tells me how proud he is of me and I reciprocate the feeling. The emotional connection is clear between us. No wondering or second guessing, we let each other know how much we love each other all the time. The last way I show my love is by being helpful. I never say no when family needs a favor. I'm the first person to show up and lend a helping hand. I don't expect anything back because honestly they have given me so much more than I feel like I give them. Being helpful is the least I can do.

I'm very grateful to have people in my life that accept the love I give them and love me back in the same ways. Life is beautiful when you spend it with those you love.